How would it feel if you could learn how to make your ex boyfriend want you back instead of you trying to win him back? This would be awesome, right? Getting your ex back after a painful, usually messy, break up is usually top on the priority list of many women who have gone through such an ordeal. Unfortunately, most women act on impulse, thus jeopardizing their chances of ever getting back together with their ex.
You should note that unlike any other situation in life where your gut feeling is always right, with a breakup, things work totally different, more in the opposite. Therefore, you should act with your head and not your heart when it comes to getting him to want you back. Below are some simple things you can do to ignite this process and make him fall for you once again, begging you to get back with him. Click here
Tips on How to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back
1. Send a friendly message
In order to open the lines of communication, you should send him a friendly message, either via phone or email, letting him know that you are doing fine while also asking about how he is. Due to the mere fact that men are usually the conversation starters, this will surprise him but also excite him.
Good to note here is that you should not, in any way, talk or imply anything about your breakup. Don’t even say anything about wanting to get back with him. Just say hi and ask how he is, full stop.
2. Ask him out on a date
Having established contact, you can now go on and ask him out on a date without any awkward feelings. Again, this will catch him off guard and by surprise. A man knows that for a woman to ask him out on a date, it takes real guts. Again, he will notice that you still have feelings for him without you saying a single word.
When you go out on that date, make sure that you have fun and that you do not bring up the talk about your break up at any time in the entire date. Make him enjoy your company.
3. See other guys
Now, before you open your jaws wide, read on. You may be wondering how seeing other guys when you are trying to get your ex to come back to you again works. This is simple psychology. When you go out with other guys, your ex will start feeling jealous. He will realize that you can actually be happy in the arms of another man. This will make him want to come right back to you urgently.
After all, if you are not seeing any one else, he has all the time in the world to decide if he still wants you. So, consider this as a trigger to getting him running back to you. When he sees competition, he will want to pull his socks up and won’t wait until someone else sweeps you off your feet.
The bottom line
Men are not as fast as women in learning signs. Therefore, you should tailor your attraction approach in small steps and deploy them one at a time, keenly watching his reaction. However, make sure that your feelings do not sell you out. Pretend not to care much about him anymore and only show friendly attraction. This will make him more and more curious about you. In time, he will realize that he is better off with this attractive woman that is you. Target acquired!
The Magic of Making Up
The above are only three of the things you can do to make your ex crazy about you. However, there are many other secret weapons that you can deploy. For example, you should not rush to get in bed with him at the earliest sign of reconciliation. Make him wait a little longer by playing hard to get.
Again, you should learn about the right kinds of foods to eat that will help you with this process, as well as what decisions to put on hold for the time being until you are back together. Above all, you should learn how to diffuse arguments before they even start when you get back together.
Remember, this is the same person you fought with resulting in to the breakup. If you want to learn these, among many other useful secrets on how to make your ex boyfriend want you back, get yourself a copy of The Magic of Making Up.